Use Fun Questions to Get Off to a Good Start

If you have ever heard the old saying that you only have one chance to make a good first impression, it is indeed accurate. Unfortunately, it may give you the idea that if you show yourself as being anything less than perfect, you may blow your chance to make a good impression. This can cause a lot of stress; but it isn't necessary.

Getting off to a good start does not mean presenting yourself as perfect. It does not even mean trying to figure out what the woman considers to be an ideal man and then trying to meet those expectations. There is no reason to set yourself up for failure or frustration-- and it is not what most women want anyway.

When you are thinking about how to make a good first impression, "Can I be the man of your dreams?" is one of the fun questions to get to know someone, but it is as relevant to finding her response as well as learning something very important about yourself. What may sound like a standard pick-up line can help you to find out from the beginning whether you are the type of person whose company she will enjoy on a date. The question you ask can make all the difference!

There is another, equally important, point to this question. It will help you realize that getting off to a good start by making a good impression means being exactly who you are.

Today's women are intelligent; most do not respond favorably to men who are phonies or braggarts. A good impression is not made by showing off, attempting to appear perfect, or trying to be someone or something you are not. You will impress the lady on a much deeper level when you make a point of just being yourself. When it comes to making the most positive first impression, and getting dates with the women you are truly interested in, asking fun questions to get to know them or handing fun cards is the best way.