A Real Woman in a Real Relationship Answer"What Do Women Really Want?"

The question that ponders men every where. "What do women really want?" Some may say that even women don't know the answer to that. In my years of dating several different types of women, I believe I've nailed down a few, but very important tips to making a woman happy.

First of all, if you are James Nelson from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, who is a tire salesman and loves to stay at home and watch movies on Friday night, then be that guy. Don't try to be the tough guy, the rich guy, the athletic guy, the womanizer, or the sensitive guy, if that is not you. Women are so over the academy award winners. They want someone that is going to be themselves, 24/7. They want to feel comfortable in their own skin and they want their man to feel that way too.

Everyone has heard of "It's the little things in life that matter." That's what she said. No, in all seriousness, women really do enjoy the simple small things. This shows that you understand her and know her. Forget the fancy jewelry and dinners all the time. Of course they are great every now and then, but it's the little things that melt her heart. If her secret vice is chocolate covered strawberries, wake her up one morning with the simple treat. Encourage her to go for a walk with you- and take her prized pooch that she dotes about.

C'mon tough guy, you can do it. Maybe start with walking at night.
Rule Number One. Make it a point, but not that obvious of a point, to look into her eyes and hold a conversation with her, when another beautiful woman is walking by. The thing that bothers women the most, and that makes its way back into arguments later, is that you mind fucked another woman. We all look. We all look when she's not around. When she is around, make sure you are treating her like she is the only girl in the entire world. She will be the envy of all her girlfriends.
Stay in shape for her. Dress nice for her. Both of these are important. Do you know the number one thing that women look for in a guy though? Make her laugh. At the end of the day when she has to pick all the things she likes most about you, it always comes down to the sense of humor. Do you have to be Steve Carrell or Will Ferrell? It all comes down to being yourself and finding the humor within you. Make her laugh when you first meet her, but most importantly, keep her laughing throughout the relationship.
Share her loves. If she loves shopping, go with her. If she loves long drives on Sunday afternoons with the windows rolled down...take her. You got together because of things in common. Make sure that if your shared interests come routine, that you are always reinventing the wheel and keeping it interesting.
Lastly, get to know her family and friends. Take sincere interest in making sure they like you. If her dad tells long ass stories that don't make any sense...still listen. Make sure that you are nodding your head, throwing comments back and forth, and giving personal references as well. She will be impressed. If her sister is a brat and bugging your girlfriend for a ride to the mall, offer to let her drive your car- making sure she's of age and does not have any blemishes on her driving record. These little things towards the people she loves the most will go way above and beyond roses and champagne every night.

This gentleman...is what women really want.