Lessons From the Women Who've Dumped Me

Truly speaking, I have been dumped for many times and I don't feel bad to admit it because I learned a lot from each of them..

Women are something who are never understandable! You don't know what they think/feel..because they are smarter than you to hide their true emotions. I have gone through many stages..here I want to share some of them.

- Try to understand the cause of the break-up:
We learn from our own mistakes. So try to determine what the reasons behind the break-up are. Why the girl dumped you? Is these all your fault or she was responsible for it. Try not to repeat the same mistake in the next relationship.

- Personal Space:
Have you ever heard of some women gossips? If yes then remember they always try to focus on the Personal Space". All women think that their boyfriends are not giving enough freedom to them, they are not giving enough space ...they (boyfriends) are just interfering in their personal life. So don't ever try to look into the matter of their personal life. But be patient! Just wait for the moment when she herself will give you the permission to know about her personal life.
Do not be possessive about your girlfriend. This irritates women! They want freedom from the bindings. If you have been dumped by women several times then also keep quiet. Do not try to bind her ...give her complete freedom.

- You get stronger than before:
Philosopher Frederick Nietzsche said, "that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger." ...its really true. Every time after being dumped we think that nobody is there for me, I have no meaning to survive. But no, its not true...we always have the better solutions to overcome the stress..You will be more mature and stronger after every break-up..you will get to know yourself better..it will definitely help you to take any further decision.

- It's okay if it wasn't meant to be:
This is the best possible solution to overcome the stress that you are going through after the break-up...This is the most realistic one. Everything happens for the betterment only...We always think fast. When a relationship starts we think of marriage, children....and many more. But if in the meantime the woman for whom you were thinking too much dump you then do not feel bad, take it as a God Blessings...because God has saved you from facing the same situation after getting married with the same woman or after having children with her .

- Good things are created, we create them:
We are the creator of everything, if we want something from our heart then it would happen surely. We do not have control over what happened in the past but we may have control over the future. From the past things we learn a lot so we could make our future beautiful by our experience.

In the next relationship try to overcome all the mistakes that you did in the last relationship and be more understanding. So do not waste your time. Get beckon the horse again and look for your best match.

Now I hope the article "Things I've learned from women who've dumped me" will definitely help you to get a clear idea about the relationship. Because relationship is the part of life which teaches us to compromise, sacrifice for somebody else.