Girl:He'll COMMIT If This Happens

Being a man's girlfriend (ie. dating for months) has nothing to do with whether or not he is truly committed to you. A man will ONLY commit to being with you when he falls in love and he is committed if he gives up all of his options and chooses to be with you long-term.

This is the mistake that plenty of women make. They truly believe that wearing the girlfriend crown gives them a permanent space in a man's heart.

But your man can love to be around you and enjoy an intimate relationship with you without truly wanting to be with you long-term. Don't make the mistake of thinking that months of dating is a sure sign that he's committed.

You can tell that a man is committed when he has made a public declaration of his intentions in a way where he is accountable to it. This is why men marry certain types of women.

The man who marries knows deep down that the woman he's with is the ONLY woman who can make him happy. It takes an intuitive process for a man to get here.

When men get to this point in a relationship, they get there alone. No amount of begging, nagging, hinting or mama treatment will cause a man to want to MARRY you. This is just not the way men are wired.

It's time to know the difference between having a commitment and not. If you are giving your man all of the reasons why he shouldn't walk you down the isle, you could just be his girlfriend for now.