8 Ways To Make Her Swoon

Aside from having a hot car and good looks, there are many things a man can do to make a woman flip for him. Many men feel as though they need to be puppy dogs to make women happy -- this is not the case. It is possible for you to maintain your identity and your masculinity, but still make your girl feel on top of the world. If you’ve just met a woman or are new to a relationship that you’d like to pursue, these tips will have her spinning and falling right into your arms.

1. Go the extra mile
If you really want to impress her, do more than she expects. Women tend to have very high standards for themselves, but lower ones for other people -- I hate to say it, but especially for men. If you think ahead and outdo her expectations, she’ll be thrilled and consider you her knight in shining armor. Every now and again, go out of your way for her in a big way. It’s good to be on time to meet her for a date; it’s even better if you show up a little early with flowers. It’s good to talk regularly; sometimes it’s better to call unexpectedly because you miss her. If you’re supposed to pick up dinner, get her a small gift “just because.” You get the idea.

2. Talk her up
When you’re around other people, the couple dynamic is often lost in the crowd. You both end up talking to different people, and it’s easy for either one of you to feel a bit deserted. If you’re around her friends and family, the best way to bring the dynamic back is to let them know how great she is.
Tell them how consistently she’s been working out, how organized she is or how well she does at work. It’s likely that they know, but they’ll love to heary know, but they’ll love to hear that you’re taking notice. Women don’t like to hear that their friend is with an unappreciative guy, and this will let them know you recognize exactly what you have. It will also make the two of you feel closer because you’ll be remembering all the things you like about her and she’ll feel fantastic about hearing you say them aloud.
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3. Show her you’re smitten with her
For women, there is nothing as irresistible as being irresistible. Since men are not exactly known for wearing their hearts on their sleeves, women often have little indication of how things are going. This is one reason that being aloof doesn’t always bring the best results -- contrary to popular belief. If you show her how you feel, she’ll feel special and wanted, and in turn, she’s likely to feel the same way about you.
There are many ways to show your feelings, and they don’t necessarily have to include anything too mushy or feminine. Just be eager to see her, let her know if you were looking forward to a date or really enjoyed a previous one, and if you really like her, tell her you want your friends to meet her. Making her feel wanted is half the battle in making her keen on you -- it’s really that simple.

4. Include her in your life
It’s not necessary to have a girl around all the time in order to keep her in your life. It may sometimes seem like it, but you don’t have to give up boys’ nights and Monday Night Football in order to make her happy. You should, however, ensure that she’s involved in some of the more important elements of your life.
As previously mentioned, an introduction to your boys can mean the world to her, even if it’s just on a Tuesday pub night after work. If there’s something major going on in your life, confide in her. Even if you’re not ready to invite her along to your family Christmas dinner, a description of what it’s like might make her feel as though she’s in the loop. Also, show interest in her life, job and friends -- this is equally important in the process of making her feel crazy for you.

5. Be original
When relationships are new, they tend to follow a pattern of expected behaviors. If you deviate from the plan, think of something interesting to do, introduce her to new music or talk about new things. This way you will leave your mark on her. Most women have met men before you, and most women are not with those other men for a reason. If you show her what sets you apart from the others, she’ll more likely to be interested in finding out more about you. She’ll find these new things exciting and she’ll feel as though her life is enriched by being around you. Wrap her up in new things and she may just find you irresistible.
Is it true that funny guys always get the girls?

6. Have a sense of humor
This includes two things: making her laugh and being able to laugh at yourself. Don’t get me wrong on the first one; it does not mean telling knock-knock jokes during dinner. Rather, be relaxed and have fun without trying too hard -- wit is priceless in the dating world. The second area of humor is laughing at yourself; there’s nothing worse than a person who takes himself too seriously. If you slop on your shirt at dinner, don’t get stressed out and swear up a storm. Recognize your foibles and accept them. You’ll be much happier, and you’ll put her at ease.

7. Reassure her
This isn’t a newsflash, but women like to be complimented. This isn’t purely due to a sense of vanity on her part; it’s more about the need to know exactly where she stands in life and in her relationships. This is why women so often run around cooing at one another about looking great, losing weight or their fabulous accomplishments. Since women like to hear it, they indulge their fellow femmes with all the reassurance one could possibly stand.
Likewise, if you tell her that she looks great or that you continue to be pleasantly surprised by how ultimately cool she is, she’ll all at once get a confidence booster and feel more appreciative of you for saying so. In particular, if you know she’s feeling insecure about something, be sure to allay her fears. She’s surely deserving of the upcoming promotion, for instance, because she’s such a capable and hardworking employee. You’ll be her hero, and that’ll pay dividends in the end.

8. Be a good listener
Although this is widely promoted as a key feature that women seek out in men, it is never explained properly. As a result, many men don’t know whether or not they’re the fabled “great listener.” Being a good listener involves really caring about what comes out of her mouth, and as such, responding with questions or thoughtful comments -- but only when it’s appropriate.
If she’s telling you about a feud with her mother (which probably doesn’t top your list of interests), you don’t have to harp on the subject all night, but you should hear her main concerns and say the appropriate sympathetic things. It is not likely advisable, however, to give her advice on her dealings with mother. Rather, just let her know you feel bad that she feels bad. A few minutes spent consoling her will likely stick favorably in her mind.

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These suggestions run on two themes, one of which is making her feel like she’s a princess -- women often complain that they don’t get enough attention. However, do this without giving up your backbone; she’ll appreciate a confident and masculine man. The second theme is all about being interesting and fun. Both these things will make you the kind of man she waits by the phone for and tells her friends about.