5 Hot and Effective Secrets to Lure Women

There are but 5 important secrets that will teach you how to flirt with girls effectively, and no, it doesn't involve money, cars, and "bling-bling". Real and effective flirting does not mean driving to town in a shiny new car. Effective flirting works best with confidence, interpersonal skills, trust in oneself, and a sense of humor. The 5 important secrets behind effective flirting below will definitely change your views on how to flirt with girls. If you want to win girls, just arm yourself with these 5 "weapons":

1. Be confident, however, do not be OVER-confident. Little confidence won't get you anywhere and over-confidence is not going to do anything for you at all. If you want to flirt with girls easily, all you need is the right amount of confidence. Keep everything at a balance: don't make a scene when around girls or they'll think you're plainly at attention seeker; also, don't act sheepish around women if you want to attract anybody.

2. Know how to socialize with people. If you know how to socialize with people, it will be very easy for you to get to know them as well as for them to get to know you. Socializing with people will require confidence, but if you want to attract and flirt with girls, you shouldn't give this much of a thought. Get used to speaking in groups or in crowds so you will be able to conquer any sort of fear of talking to a lot of people. Controlling that fear will result to an easy time in meeting girls.

3. Try to keep a positive image. A positive image is one of the best ways to attract women. If you keep that image of being charming, friendly, and someone fun to be with, women will consider you above other guys. Who doesn't want to date a charming guy with a pleasing personality? More so, if you have this great sense of humor, if you are adventurous, and someone who respects women, and people know you for it, women will run to you and probably flirt with you and not the other way around. Compared with a man who is rowdy, mean towards people, or probably abusive, a man with a charming attitude will win the attraction and attention of the crowd more.

4. Use a little reverse psychology. This is only necessary when the situation calls for it. For example, if a gorgeous lady walks into the room, a lot of guys would probably stare at her, try to woo her, and flirt with her. What you should do when things like this occur is to do what others are not doing by just staring at her, and then walking away. She will begin to wonder if there's anything funny on her face or if she did something wrong. You will win her attention faster than the other guys not because you flirted like the others, but because she is intrigued by your behavior towards her.

5. Be yourself. The most important thing about meeting people is by being yourself. Unless you can enjoy yourself, you won't be able to enjoy the company and the presence of other people. Being yourself results to being confident around various people and this will also help you with flirting. If you try to keep up with pretending to be somebody, one way or another, you will find it very uncomfortable and you would prefer you had acted otherwise.

Now that you know how to flirt with girls, why don't you give it a shot? Practice these 5 secrets often until you master them and until you are able to incorporate your very own flirting technique; and remember, as you flirt, you might get rejected, but don't get discouraged easily. There's always room for improvement when it comes to flirting, and even better women could come along sooner or later.