How You Can Get Your Ex Back - Proven Methods to Rekindle Your Relationship!

"Breaking up is hard to do". Most of us have heard the song before and everyone has heard the saying. It's a fact of life that people often overlook until it happens to them. Breaking up can be a devastating time that leaves you begging to get your ex back.

Today we wanted to shed some light on how people can successfully get their ex back if they have recently broken up. There are actual methods that have been proven to bring back peoples exes crawling back to them.

If you're the victim of a recent breakup, I imagine it's a difficult time for you. Most people can't stop thinking about their ex, they lose their appetite and they feel plain lousy. I feel for you and I want to know that you can get your ex back if you follow the right steps.

The first thing you need to focus on is the following - Don't contact your ex! It's amazing how many people shoot themselves in the foot after a breakup or separation. They call, email or text message their ex several times a day in the hopes that it will somehow win them back.

You CAN'T do this if you want your relationship to rekindle. You will only annoy your ex and I promise you it does far more harm than good. As hard as it is, give them space.

Here's why it's so powerful to just step back and cut all contact - your ex will actually contact you! The human mind is quite a funny thing - when your ex realizes that you aren't calling or keeping in touch, they can't help but get curious and wonder what's going on.

They expect you to be begging for them back, but when you don't it throws them for a loop. This step is hard but unbelievably important. By not contacting your ex, you will see that in a short time they will come to you and the power will have shifted into your hands.

Here's a couple of things NOT to do. Don't ever do any of the following:
- Call your ex's friends to ask them how to get your ex back or complain
- Get drunk and call your ex
- Beg, Plead or apologize profusely

There are many others, but those are three biggies. You don't want to appear needy or crushed. Sad people are unattractive - you don't want your ex to see you this way!

This was just a quick starting guide to getting your ex back. There are many more tips that are proven to help people regain their lovers. You need to know what "strategy" to have and just as importantly what you absolutely must avoid if you ever want to have a chance to be with your ex again.