First, you must understand that making a man really want you is not supposed to be hard. If it is, then it is time to reset. Most people who are frustrated that they are doing all the work are making it way to hard on themselves. If you are afraid that you backing off will cause you to lose him than you may as well get it over with.
Once you realize this, it is time to focus on what will naturally make a man want you. As you may have guessed this is going to begin with turning his head. While it is true that attraction is the least important part of a relationship you do have to be able to get in the front door with him. Stand in front of a mirror and pick out your most attractive feature. Then, find out what you can do to really make it stand out.
Nice legs? How about a skirt and high heels? Attractive neck? Try something which will draw his attention there. No, this does not mean that you have to dress like a tramp. Just focus on your strong points instead of wasting your energy on masking our weaknesses. Once you have his attention then you can turn on your charm.
This means knowing how say without words: "I am interested in you." When it comes to this the more subtle and mysterious you can be the better. A light touch on the hand, a wink, or a slight sideways glance which seems to have no purpose at all are going to light up his imagination. If nothing else, the sheer thrill of the chase will have him wanting to know more.
Once you have him in pursuit you can focus on the most important thing: Friendship. Right. Take the pressure off of you both and he will be wondering where you have been all of his dating life. Dating has enough pressure on its own. Why add to it? Approach your bonding with him as a friend and let nature take its course.
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